First of all let’s look at the obvious tell tale signs, that your wife is cheating, there are lots of them, but I believe these to be the best.
1. Suddenly, she takes four hours to get ready instead of two!
This is one of the best signs, appearance! New hair style or much more regular visits to the hair salon, different perfume, new clothes, new underwear, has her nails done, etc,etc.
2. Nips out to the shop dressed immaculately and returns two hours later saying she met an old friend from years ago.
3. She panics when the phone rings.
4. Here’s a classic, less arguing at home, she doesn’t mind if you go out with the lads, she lets you do things at home where she always used to moan, nag and make a big deal about it.
Well, there’s just a few of the better cheating wife signs, obviously there are lots more. These signs do not mean your wife is definitely cheating, but I would start taking a close look at her actions and movements. Please don’t jump in screaming, only to find out you were wrong, this could be disastrous.
But what also interests me is how to stop infidelity.
How to stop your wife cheating in the first place.
Be a gentleman! Sounds really corny, but a lady likes to be fussed over, she has to feel loved and needed. Buy her some flowers, chocolates, take her out to dinner, to the cinema. These are things every husband or boyfriend should be doing on a regular basis, it doesn’t mean you have to go crazy, but once a week, or even once a month, make her feel special.
She needs to be your best friend, you need to talk regular about anything and everything, take more of an interest in the things your wife likes, every now and then do something around the house that you don’t normally do, like, collecting the washing, bathing the kids, you may already do these, but simply make a small effort to help out with things you don’t normally do.
If you are reading this article, you probably suspect your wife is cheating, know she’s cheating, or have been cheated on and don’t want it to happen again. It’s not nice and also the husband is normally the last to know when his wife has been cheating.
Simion Seru is an expert in cheating spouses, how to stop spouses cheating and how to survive infidelity. For help, http://how-to-tell-if-your-wife-is-cheating.blogspot.com/
How To Tell If Your Wife Is Cheating
Tuesday, October 03, 2006
Saturday, September 23, 2006
Surviving Infidelity
6 Signs You Have a Cheating Wife by Andrew Bicknell
When you get that first inkling that something may be wrong with your marriage do you know the signs that you may have a cheating wife? If the signs are there it might be time to circle the wagons and make a decision as to how to handle the situation. Unfortunately handling a wife's infidelity is a emotional issue and for many men is something they don't even want to think about, let alone deal with. What you decide to do is entirely personal, no matter the advice one may get from family, friends and co-workers. Knowing the signs of a cheating wife at the very least gives you a head start on where your marriage may be going and how to best protect yourself emotionally and financially.
1. Changes in appearance - This one can go both ways. While it just may be nothing more than a change in her attitude about herself and how she wants to look it can also be a warning sign that she wants to look good for someone else. If she suddenly changes her hairstyle, has her nails done and dresses more provocatively you need to be worried why, particularly if you notice new lingerie in the laundry that she hasn't ever worn for you.
2. Diminished intimacy - Not only in the bedroom but in daily life as well. If you used to have the kind of relationship where you and your wife shared and talked about everything and she begins to distance herself from you there may be a problem that you need to investigate. In the bedroom she may no longer show any interest in being intimate with you or if she does she displays a whole new sexual repertoire and interest in new things. This can be good if it's something you've talked about, but if it just starts to happen for no apparent reason it can be a sign that she is learning new things somewhere else.
3. Less arguing and fighting - If your wife is not only distancing herself from you on an intimate level but also you notice you are not arguing with her as much as you used to it can be a sign she isn't interested in what you are doing whether it's good or bad in her mind.
4. Disinterest in family - Loss of interest in family functions and spending less time with not only you and the kids but with her extended family as well. This can be a sign of trying to hide whatever she's doing on the sly.
5. More phone and internet - If she's spending more time on the phone but out of earshot or late nights on the internet when you are asleep or doesn't want you around while she's doing whatever it is she's doing online can be a sign of a cheating wife.
6. Changes in children's behavior - If you have kids strange changes in their behavior can be a signal. It's not that they know the truth of what's going on but they are very perceptive to changes in their parent's behavior and will react to these changes in emotional and physical ways.
These are six good signs that your wife may be cheating. Each one taken alone may not mean much but if you notice 2 or more of these signs it is time to start thinking about taking some sort of action to find out the truth. Nobody wants to find out their wife is cheating on them but sometimes the best defense is a good offense.
About the Author
Andrew Bicknell researches and writes about a variety of subjects. To learn more about the signs of a cheating wife click here.
Surviving Infidelity
When you get that first inkling that something may be wrong with your marriage do you know the signs that you may have a cheating wife? If the signs are there it might be time to circle the wagons and make a decision as to how to handle the situation. Unfortunately handling a wife's infidelity is a emotional issue and for many men is something they don't even want to think about, let alone deal with. What you decide to do is entirely personal, no matter the advice one may get from family, friends and co-workers. Knowing the signs of a cheating wife at the very least gives you a head start on where your marriage may be going and how to best protect yourself emotionally and financially.
1. Changes in appearance - This one can go both ways. While it just may be nothing more than a change in her attitude about herself and how she wants to look it can also be a warning sign that she wants to look good for someone else. If she suddenly changes her hairstyle, has her nails done and dresses more provocatively you need to be worried why, particularly if you notice new lingerie in the laundry that she hasn't ever worn for you.
2. Diminished intimacy - Not only in the bedroom but in daily life as well. If you used to have the kind of relationship where you and your wife shared and talked about everything and she begins to distance herself from you there may be a problem that you need to investigate. In the bedroom she may no longer show any interest in being intimate with you or if she does she displays a whole new sexual repertoire and interest in new things. This can be good if it's something you've talked about, but if it just starts to happen for no apparent reason it can be a sign that she is learning new things somewhere else.
3. Less arguing and fighting - If your wife is not only distancing herself from you on an intimate level but also you notice you are not arguing with her as much as you used to it can be a sign she isn't interested in what you are doing whether it's good or bad in her mind.
4. Disinterest in family - Loss of interest in family functions and spending less time with not only you and the kids but with her extended family as well. This can be a sign of trying to hide whatever she's doing on the sly.
5. More phone and internet - If she's spending more time on the phone but out of earshot or late nights on the internet when you are asleep or doesn't want you around while she's doing whatever it is she's doing online can be a sign of a cheating wife.
6. Changes in children's behavior - If you have kids strange changes in their behavior can be a signal. It's not that they know the truth of what's going on but they are very perceptive to changes in their parent's behavior and will react to these changes in emotional and physical ways.
These are six good signs that your wife may be cheating. Each one taken alone may not mean much but if you notice 2 or more of these signs it is time to start thinking about taking some sort of action to find out the truth. Nobody wants to find out their wife is cheating on them but sometimes the best defense is a good offense.
About the Author
Andrew Bicknell researches and writes about a variety of subjects. To learn more about the signs of a cheating wife click here.
Surviving Infidelity
Friday, September 22, 2006
How To Tell if Your Wife Is Cheating
Hi
Welcome to my blog, how to tell if your wife is cheating. Nearly all the information on this blog can also be applied for the reverse, how to tell if your husband is cheating.
There will be regular posts, resources and links cooncerning this topic, please don't jump to any conclusions regarding your cheating wife, I know someone who made a terrible mistake, he confronted his wife with all kinds of accusations, he thought they were true, but after a lengthy and costly investigation, he realised his wife had been faithful the whole time and had done absolutely nothing wrong.
How to tell if your wife is cheating does exactly as it says on the tin!
Do your research before you jump in with guns blazing.
How to tell if your wife is cheating
Simion
Welcome to my blog, how to tell if your wife is cheating. Nearly all the information on this blog can also be applied for the reverse, how to tell if your husband is cheating.
There will be regular posts, resources and links cooncerning this topic, please don't jump to any conclusions regarding your cheating wife, I know someone who made a terrible mistake, he confronted his wife with all kinds of accusations, he thought they were true, but after a lengthy and costly investigation, he realised his wife had been faithful the whole time and had done absolutely nothing wrong.
How to tell if your wife is cheating does exactly as it says on the tin!
Do your research before you jump in with guns blazing.
How to tell if your wife is cheating
Simion
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