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Signs of an Unfaithful Wife - How to Know If Your Wife Has Cheated

Cheating may in fact be one of those things better relegated to the phrase "... different strokes for different people" because for some, cheating is a deal breaker, but for some others, it is just one more thing to "roll with". Regardless, any man worth his salt is at least a teensy bit possessive and not overly eager to share his wife with every Tom, Dick, and Harry.
There are a whole lot of clues a woman will drop like bread crumbs when she starts stepping out on you and it is really up to you to be observant in order to pick up on them because let's face it, rarely will she walk up to you and bluntly tell you that she is cheating unless of course she despises you more than you will ever know. Some of those bread crumbs include:

1. She talks less.
Every woman is at some level, a chatter-box. It's just the way we are wired. Even the most quiet of women, will generally tell the man she loves every thing about her day from how she dissed that pompous co-worker to how she was cut off in traffic by one rude driver to how she chipped her nail while making dinner. A woman in love involves you so graphically in her day that you can actually picture it without being there. So fellas, when she suddenly stops talking about her day, you need to be worried because chances are, she has found someone else, perhaps more willing to listen than you are. Note: if you have always been in the habit of rebuffing her when whenever she tries to talk to you, her newfound reticence may be a direct result of your constant snubs. But even where this is the case, you should be worried because even if she is not cheating already, she is fast falling out of love.

2. You become "Dear John"
What I mean is, if there is a particular guy you suspect she may be cheating with, observe how she treats you around him. If she treats you like a good ol'buddy around him, you may want to keep a closer eye on that relationship. If she is emotionally entangled with him, then when in the company of both of you, she will instinctively try to treat you both equally rather than show 'favoritism'.

3. Kissing
The rule of the Kiss Test is general to men and women so if she is cheating on you, her kissing technique will change, subconsciously picking up that of the other man. But please do not inject paranoia into this as she may merely not want to ruin her lipstick or something.

4. Change in apparels
By this, I do not necessarily mean clothes, but lingerie. If your wife has been prone to comfortable, good-girl cotton underwear for your 10 years of marriage and all of a sudden she is investing in eye-popping lacy scraps then you should be worried unless of course you have been harping on that and urging her to go lacy. On the reverse, she could suddenly decide to start wearing sexy lacy undies if she thinks you are cheating because she is subconsciously trying to compete with the other woman to win you back!!! Either way, you need to talk because you can't win this one: If she is cheating, you are losing her; and if she is not cheating but thinks you are cheating, you should probably fear for your life because hell hath no fury like a woman scorned.

5. Lying
I never met a cheat who wanted to be caught so lying is invariably a sign that she has something to hide or that she has done something she is not very proud of. When a lady lies, she may pat her hair, look away etc. However these are not necessarily fool proof signs and are better discussed in a different article. (See the reference at the end of this article).

6. Anger
90% of women will not cheat unless they have transferred their affections to another man. So if your woman is cheating on you, she will invariably start seeing you as the other man. In her eyes, you are forcing her to be unfaithful to the man she loves i.e. her lover. Also, believe it or not, she may blame you for her affair and this will likely show itself in unexplained surges of anger. So if she suddenly starts detesting your touch, avoiding physical contacts in conversation, etc, you may want to sit up. In the reverse, when she is suddenly indifferent about your failure to say, pick her up for lunch or doesn't get angry because you did not remember your wedding anniversary, you may be glad to have escaped a major row but trust me, you have a big problem.

7. She never nags. Ever
To most men, the ideal woman is one who never nags and because of that, most women go out of their way to avoid nagging at all times.In truth however, every woman will nag once in a while because it's innate. It may be little things like trying to tell you how to drive, or how to knot your tie, or how to file your nails, but when your wife totally leaves you to your own devices all of a sudden, and doesn't turn a hair when you dash out on your way to work with an orange shirt and a green trouser, chances are, she has found someone else to 'mother'.

8. Overattentiveness vs Indifference
Ordinarily, a cheating wife may become indifferent but in reality, most women who cheat feel guilty and because of that, she may try to compensate by being even more attentive to you. Do not be the clueless, naive husband; be alert!!! If she becomes overly attentive, you need to ask what she is trying to make up for.

9. New Hobbies.
Studies have shown that in a relationship, women are more likely to try new things to please the men in their lives than vice versa. If your previously sports-allergic wife suddenly takes up shooting hoops on Saturdays, then there may be a new man in her life. Of course, this is not an absolute sign of cheating as the woman may simply be trying to take up a new lifestyle for absolutely healthy reasons like fitness. If you are not sure, simply ask when she least expects it and watch her reaction.

10. New friends.
If she is cheating on you, chances are she will start avoiding her old friends because she may not want them to discover her shameful secret. As a general rule, female friends are less tolerant of cheating than male friends so while a man who is straying may be cheered on by his friends, a woman who is cheating may be condemned by her friends.(Yes it reeks of double standards but that is just the way it is).

11. Unaccountable hours
I mentioned this last because it is so well known that it is almost like the litmus test of cheating. (Indeed in my article on Signs of An Unfaithful Husband I chose not to mention it at all.) If your wife is cheating, you may be sure that there will be a lot of inexplicable absences and delays and some incredible stories to explain away the absences or just plain silence.
There are several other signs that a woman is no longer 100% committed to you, but pleases note that the above-listed are not fool proof because there is always an exception to every rule! Some may display these signs and not be cheating, but others may not display any of these but may in fact be cheating.

Sadly, cheating is an unavoidable part of life but a sure-fire sign is usually lying. The clues women leave when they lie are different from those of men. Some of those clues are discussed in-depth on my blog: http://sherina89.blogspot.com in an article that expressively discusses signs of lying in women, separate and distinct from that in men. So click on that link to further help you ascertain where you stand with your lady love!!!

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Is Your Wife Cheating? - How to Tell If You Have a Cheating Spouse

Do you think that you wife may be cheating on you? What are the signs that your wife is cheating? Are there specific things that point to signs of an affair?

While some people think that only men are capable of cheating, that is not always the case. Women will cheat on their husbands as well and can stray from the marriage for several reasons. If you believe that your wife may be seeing someone else, here a few signs that indicate the likelihood of an affair.

Change in Appearance
One classic sign of a cheating wife is to find new clothes in the closet. These new clothes won't be part of a normal shopping trip, but rather they will be much sexier than anything she has worn in the past. In addition, another sign that your wife may be cheating is if she dramatically alters her appearance. For example, if she suddenly colors or cuts her hair she could be trying to change for someone new in her life.

Loss of Interest
Pay close attention if you wife suddenly loses in interest in mutual friends and other hobbies that the two of you share. This may mean that she is trying to distance herself from you and your friends either out of necessity of the affair or out of guilt.

Attitude
A cheating wife will also begin to change her attitude whether consciously or unconsciously. For example, if she no longer wants to hug or kiss you, this could be a red flag. In addition, pay attention to what she says. Be concerned if she begins to pick fights for no reason, has negative comments about friends and family or is constantly bringing up new people in her life that you are unfamiliar with.

Work Habits
Be concerned if your wife is also putting in longer hours at work. Unless she has recently changed jobs titles, the longer hours could be a sign that she is going out with somewhere else before heading home to you. In addition, pay attention to any changes in her routine. For example, if dinner is no longer ready when it normally is or your wife is making excuses for not getting the kids like she normally does. These can both be indicators that your wife is cheating.

Finances
You may also see signs of a cheating wife in your finances. She may be spending money on someone else if her credit card bills are suddenly a lot higher than ever before or if there is money missing from joint accounts.

Staying Away From Home
Another classic red flag is if you wife is spending more and more time away from home when it used to be her favorite place. It may be that she feels shame when she sees you, so she chooses to stay away as much as possible.

Telephone Calls and Internet Use
If you wife is spending more time than usual on calls and the internet, she may be having an affair. Be sure to check phone bills and internet history if you believe she is talking to someone she shouldn't be.

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Save Your Marriage Or just Let It Go, it's Up to you

 

Can We Still Save Our Marriage If My Spouse Isn't Telling The Truth About The Cheating?

I sometimes hear from people who worry that all of the lies about the affair are going to mean that their marriage can't be saved. Sometimes, the person who had the affair has started to tell the truth, but other times, they are still lying. And this can leave the faithful spouse wondering if their marriage even stands a chance.

I heard from a wife who said: "my husband denied that he was cheating for six months before I caught him. He told me that I was being paranoid and he would get so mad at me when I would continue to bring up my suspicions when he very forcefully told me that he was not cheating. I just could not shake the feeling that not only lying to me, but he was cheating too. So I kept a close watch on him and eventually I caught him cheating so that he could not deny it any longer. Now, even as we are trying to save our marriage, I will still catch him in lies sometimes. And when I do, he will tell me that he's just trying not to hurt me or that he doesn't feel like I need to know each painful detail. Despite all of this, I want to save my marriage more than anything, but I'm worried that his lying means that this just isn't going to be possible. Are my doubts justified?" I will try to address these concerns in the following article.

You Are Right To Be Concerned About The Lies: This wife was absolutely right to be concerned about her husband's lies (and the fact that he was continuing to lie.) It's common for people to lie about cheating because they do not want to be caught or because they do not want to hurt their spouse. But once the affair is out in the open, the lying should stop. The key word in that last sentence is "should." The lying should stop, but it doesn't always stop for a variety of reasons.

 

Spouses will sometimes continue to lie because they still want to spare their spouse's pain. Sometimes the cheating spouse figures that the more information that the faithful spouse obtains, the more painful this entire process is going to be. Other times, they are trying to spare themselves some blame. They know that their behavior was deplorable. But to the extend that they can, they want to keep just how deplorable their actions were to themselves. And sometimes, they have just gotten into the habit of lying and find it hard to start telling the whole truth all of the time.

As you can see, often your unfaithful spouse will believe that they have a vested interest in continuing to lie (or to at least omit some of the truth.) That's why it's important for you to make it clear how vital it is that they stop lying, which I'll discuss right now.

Making It Clear That The Lies Must Stop: There are various ways that you can try to make it very clear that continued lies aren't acceptable. The first way to is to have a frank discussion about this topic. So, the next time your husband attempts to slide a lie your way, you might say something like: "we both know that you are not telling me the truth right now. And the lies must stop. You are telling me that you want to save our marriage, but your lies contradict your claims. I realize that some of this may be due to the fact that you don't want to hurt me. But in order to heal and to begin to restore the trust, I have to know that I can believe what you say. And you need to know that I'm not going to just accept what you tell me if I feel that I can not trust you. That's why I need for you to tell me the complete truth from this minute forward. The lies infuriate me and erode our trust more than the truth ever could. So will you commit to telling me the truth."

Typically, after you make a speech like this, you are going to need to follow through. So, if there is something that doesn't sound right, question him again or follow up. With that said, once you notice that he's giving you no reason to distrust him, then you will need to eventually show some good faith that you are trying to do just that.

How Marriages Are Saved After The Lies That Follow The Cheating: I have seen many marriages be saved after the lies that follow infidelity. But in almost every case, the unfaithful spouse eventually begins to tell the truth and they never stop. Now admittedly, your marriage can be saved or can work with lies if you turn a blind eye to them. That's not what I am talking about here. I'm talking about returning to a healthy marriage that is filled with trust because both parties know that they can trust the other to tell the complete truth at all time. When lies have come before this, then this is not always a quick or easy process. It takes work. And restoring the trust can be a very gradual process.

 

The person who has lied must know that it their responsibility to give their spouse no reason to distrust them in the future. They must always tell the truth even why lying might be easier. And the person who has been lied to has to commit to eventually letting go once your spouse has proven themselves to be trustworthy. As you might gather, this process can take time and it's not always smooth sailing. But to answer the question posed, yes, I do believe that the marriage can be saved when one spouse has lied about the affair. But this can often only happen after that same spouse decides to start telling the truth once and for all. And both parties must commit to doing whatever it takes to rehabilitate and save the marriage, even when it is not always easy.

I had to make it very clear early on that I would not, under any circumstances, tolerate any more lies.  And, after my husband gave me no reason to continue to distrust him, I had to take a leap of faith.  It wasn't always easy, but it was worth it.  If it helps, you can read our story on my blog at http://surviving-the-affair.com.

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49 Signs Of A Cheating Partner - Read These Red Flags Now And Know If Your Partner Is A Cheater

Lately things just aren't the same with your partner. Something seems off, and you can't help but wonder if there's somebody else. Suspecting your partner of cheating can be tricky. The possibility terrifies you, but you're also afraid of being wrong and looking like a fool who has trust issues. In a situation like this, it is wise to tread carefully.
Make sure that there are legitimate reasons for suspecting your partner, and that it's not just your insecurity that is skewing your point of view. If you do have an overwhelming feeling that there may be infidelity in your relationship then read on for common signs of cheating, and compare them with your man or lady's behavior.

1. Change In long held beliefs: You observe a shift in your partner's attitude about relationships or love. It may be that your man used to condemn husbands who cheat on their wives and had strong opinions about infidelity. Suddenly, they seem more lenient with their thinking.
Maybe you're watching TV together one night and there's news of a celebrity couple breaking up because the man cheated. You are appalled, but he might shrug and say something like "Well, if she stopped having sex with him what do you expect?"
Pay attention to changes in long held beliefs that your partner had, he or she may be altering their view to accommodate their new thinking or behavior.

2. Trading in khakis for miniskirts: If you have known your partner for a while, then you might start noticing sudden changes in the way they dress or want to look. If your lady has always been very taken with her appearance, and she buys new clothes or changes her hair, it may not be a cause for alarm. However, if she used to dress like a frumpy grandmother to work and she's suddenly wearing miniskirts and high heels, then you may have a problem.

3. Newfound body image issues: A sudden and unjustified change in body image is another major infidelity sign. If your partner has taken the decision to be thinner or more muscular for health reasons or has always been fit there's probably no reason to doubt anything.
However, if your couch potato husband is not really concerned with his health, but suddenly starts spending hours in the gym because he is now obsessed with getting rid of his belly fat, then take a closer look. Also, if he refuses that you accompany him to the gym, or is presenting otherwise sketchy behavior regarding his body, he may be straying.

4. I want to be alone: Your partner suddenly wants to spend a lot of time on their own. The need for space is a major sign that something is going on especially if this request comes out of nowhere and with no valid explanation.
If you two had a fight and he or she is still resentful, then the need for space can be somewhat understood. However, if your relationship is stable and things are going great, and your partner suddenly wants to be alone, there might be someone else filling that void.

5. Picking fights: The man or woman in your life might also not only demand more space but do everything possible to create more of it. He or she might pick fights for no reason, and may make an issue of every little thing to create an illusion that you're not getting along.
They do this to legitimize their wrongdoings and to feel less guilty. The way they figure is this; since you're both always fighting, you are the unreasonable one and you are pushing them into another person's arms.

6. Storming out of the house: On a related note, if your man or woman storms out after a "fight" because they just can't take it anymore and say that they need some time to think, they may be using it as an opportunity to meet up with the other person. This technique has two major benefits.
First, it gives him or her more time on their own to cheat. Second, they can use the fights as a lever to gain the sympathy of the other person who they are cheating with. They want the other man or woman to stay in the deceitful relationship.
So they complain about their partner to demonstrate that they are being driven to cheat and so it isn't their fault. So if every time you fight with your partner, he or she storms out there may be a good reason why.

7. Reverse psychology: When someone is cheating, he or she becomes a master manipulator. If you start noticing that your once earnest and direct partner is using reverse psychology and other weird techniques that they didn't use before, then know that something is up. If he or she always makes it seem that you're the one in the wrong no matter what happens. He or she may have something to hide.
8. On the defensive: If your man or lady has suddenly become overly defensive and can't take any type of criticism, then you need to take a good look at what's going on. If you ask him about a lady co-worker and he starts a fight, or he becomes furious after you ask him why he didn't call if he was going to be late for dinner, there's something there.
Ask your partner about it, maybe there's a good reason for this newly found oversensitivity and short temper. A stressful work week or family problems may be to blame for this change in behavior.

9. Lying through their teeth: Cheating always involves lying. If you keep catching your partner in little lies, then something is up. If he said he was working late the night before at the office, then says that he was out with his boss having drinks another time, beware he may be cheating. If the little things he or she says just don't add up, then ask them about it. If they avoid confronting the issue, you can be sure that there's something going on that shouldn't be.

10. Going the distance: If your partner is cheating, then he or she may deal by becoming more distant. He will avoid talking about serious subjects and only engage in small talk. He may avoid getting into conversations about your finances, work, and children if you have them or any future plans. He or she will always seem to have something on their mind and you can't seem to connect with them on a deeper level like you used to.

11. Emotional detachment: Your partner might also disengage emotionally from your relationship. Your man used to be extremely affectionate and loving, but now you can't get an "I love you" out of him. There might be something wrong. You'll want to ask him why he has become emotionally detached.
He might be upset with you over something you did and is acting out, so talking about it is very important. If he just shrugs or refuses to even acknowledge his behavior or even blames you for being paranoid, something deeper might be festering under his aloof exterior and you need to be careful.

12. Loves being out alone, hates staying in with you: Does your partner seem upbeat when he or she gets home or when they are getting ready to go out, but seems gloomy while he or she is spending time with you? If you don't have any problems in your relationship that may be causing this change in behavior, then it might be that your partner is excited about something going on outside the home, something like a juicy affair.

13. Affection overload: Some other cheaters act in an entirely different manner due to overwhelming feelings of guilt. They will shower their partners with affection, gifts and caring words. They might be even more romantic than usual and more attentive.
If this shift is sudden and you cannot find a logical or even an illogical explanation for it, then ask your partner what brought this on, they may be able to reassure you and give you a valid explanation. If you still can't understand this behavior, it might be that your partner is cheating and using this as a decoy so you won't suspect anything.

14. Chatter away: On a related note, if your usually silent partner suddenly becomes a chatterbox, then beware. Sometimes people who lie tend to over talk or give more information than was asked for to cover up other things. Observe this new behavior for a while, and bring it up to them if it bothers you.

15. Working a lot of overtime: One of the most obvious cheating signs is your partner keeps working overtime when this was never the case before. He or she suddenly becomes the most valuable and hardest working employee in their company.
This doesn't always mean that your partner is cheating on you; there might be a special project that needs to be done before a certain deadline or it's the end of the year and there's a lot of work that needs to be done. However, if your partner seems to be the only one working overtime, and other employees don't seem to know anything about it, then there might be something fishy going on.

16. Do not enter-work zone: If your partner used to involve you in his or her work life. Telling you all about work, inviting you to company events like picnics, having you over to meet them for lunch but suddenly starts cutting you off, something might not be right.
Maybe he or she doesn't want you around their workplace because there's someone they don't want you to know about or there is something that they are hiding like all those extra projects they were working on late were fictional. If you do see any of your partner's co-workers, they may act very uncomfortable in your presence. If there is no valid explanation for this, something might be going on behind your back.

17. Buddies no more: Similarly, if your man used to invite his buddies over for Sunday night football or Thursday night Basketball every week, and suddenly stops having them over, it may be because he is afraid that they will spill his secret or not corroborate his stories.
If he starts meeting with them outside more and more, he may also be using them as his alibi for getting out of the house. He may be keeping you apart from them because he's afraid that they might accidently or intentionally divulge his secret.

18. Awkward friend situation: Also it may be that your man or lady's friends keep avoiding you even though you all used to be very close. Your girlfriend or wife's friends might do everything in their power to not see you because they can't face you if they know of their friend's cheating.
They might also be afraid of saying anything that would compromise your relationship and most people do not want to be a part of that. So they might avoid you all together so as not to find themselves in an awkward situation.

19. Bye Bye old interests: If your partner suddenly loses interest in activities which he used to love, then there might be something weird going on. If your man, out of the blue, starts to hate playing sports when he used to live and breathe soccer, or he stops spending his free time gardening on the weekends, then there might someone else in his life that is bringing on those changes.

20. Marriage blues: If you are married, and you notice that your husband or wife starts acting hostile or bored towards you, your children or your home life in general, there might be something fishy going on. He or she might start making references to how they misses being single or how hard it is to be married.
He or she might get rid of your children's toys in the car or anything that demonstrates that they have a family. They may be cheating with someone and are lying to them about being married with children, and so they suddenly start rejecting their marital status.

21. Beware of the Lazy pants: If your spouse used to be active around the house doing laundry, feeding the kids, mowing the lawn, and suddenly starts becoming lazy and uncooperative, he or she may be feeling negatively towards the very notion of being married and sharing your home.
They don't even want to try anymore, and this includes doing chores, planning family outings and vacations. They might not even want to attend important events such as holidays, anniversaries or birthday parties. This is especially suspicious if they never really had any issue with doing these things before.

22. Strange outings: Another sign that your partner may be straying is that he or she begins to go out to new places at strange times, and never has a convincing answer as to why this is. He used to hate food shopping, suddenly he insists on doing the weekly grocery shopping, and doesn't want you to come along.
She used to deeply despise anything arty, and out of the blue, one Saturday has an outing to go to an art museum with friends. You know your partner inside and out, so if you notice changes in their favorite activities with no valid explanation, something is up.

23. Sneaking out like a teenager: If your partner is sneaking out, then he or she may have something to hide. The reason they may be going out behind your back is usually to avoid scrutinizing questions and wants to avoid lying to you. If he or she has nothing to hide then letting you know that they are on their way out shouldn't be such a secretive matter, so beware of increased sneakiness and secrecy.

24. Is your partner an undercover agent?: You may find out that your partner has a new means of communication that you don't know about. This includes a new e-mail address, a Facebook account under a pseudonym or nickname, a new cell phone and phone number. All of these are big red flags that you should immediately take notice of.

25. Financial infidelity: Another major sign of cheating is the odd use of money and/or credit cards. If you are used to sharing financial data between you and your partner, and he or she suddenly starts hiding credit card statements or disabling your access to an online checking account to hide cash withdrawals or other new spending habits, something weird is going on.

26. Is this my partner talking?: If your partner is having an affair, then he or she might start using different language than he used to. This includes telling more or less jokes, or using certain catch phrases. He or she may even adopt a certain way of talking or an accent that is inspired by someone else.
We tend to emulate people that we like and hang around with often. So if this is happening in your relationship, pay attention and ask your partner about it.

27. Your partner becomes jumpy and frazzled: Your man or lady might easily get disturbed or confused by mundane things. If you do something nice for him or her, they act strange. This is because they want to vilify you to justify their wrongdoing, and your nice behavior catches them off guard.
They might act disoriented and jumpy for no apparent reason. This can be a cheating sign because your partner is trying to sort out his or her feelings about your relationship but also the affair, and is likely to present erratic and unstable behavior as a result.

28. Country music anyone?: If your partner suddenly starts developing new taste in music or in food, then you might want to question him or her about it. It may be that they are dating someone who is fond of a certain cuisine or music, and they are beginning to take a liking to it. Developing new tastes out of the blue can be a revealing sign that your partner has found someone new to be devoted to.

29. What's up with the Brazilian?: Another infidelity sign is a sudden change in personal hygiene and body grooming habits. If your man used to shower every morning and is suddenly taking several showers a day for no apparent reason, there might be something going on.
If your lady didn't used to pay attention to her private parts being groomed, and begins getting Brazilian bikini waxes, she might be trying to impress someone else. He or she may also buy new underwear and use it, or may start putting on a lot of perfume or after shave. Pay attention to these little details if you suspect your partner of cheating.

30. Condoms away!: Another sign that there might be a sexual affair going is the increased use of contraceptive methods. Is she on the pill when you have gotten a vasectomy? Is he carrying out condoms when you are on the pill and haven't used condoms since high school? If there is no valid explanation for this behavior, then this is a big red flag that your partner may be cheating.

31. Blue pill wonders: Another sign of cheating is that your partner is suddenly interested in purchasing medication for sexual performance. He may get erectile dysfunction medication such as Viagra. She might order breast enlargement herbal supplements or lubricant for herself. This is especially suspicious if it is done secretively through online ordering or he or she hides the objects once they arrive or takes them in secret.

32. The answer lies in clothes: There may be unexplained stains, smells or rips on your partner's clothing. This may include the clichéd lipstick smudge on your man's shirt, but also other types of stains and smells that just aren't typical of your partner's clothes. This can also lead to suddenly excessive laundry washing at weird hours of the day or night, unexplained purchasing of new clothes, or finding clothes in the trash can that your partner may have thrown away to hide evidence.

33. Knock knock, is anyone in there?: Your partner may be caught daydreaming or checked out at many times during the day, and doesn't tell you what they're thinking about and is unwilling to interact. He or she seems to be in another world, but denies it and can't seem to be bothered to engage in activities with you. Your partner may just be absorbed by work or something else might be bothering them.

 

34. Are you more likely to reach President Obama on the phone than your partner?: Your partner suddenly becomes impossible to reach. When you call the office, they are always at a meeting or on another call with an important client. Their cell phone is turned off on more than one occasion, and the cell phone reception in their building is suddenly the "worst." Your partner may not call you back right away, or claims to not have received your calls or listened to your messages.
Their assistant or receptionist is all of the sudden the most incompetent person on earth. In short, the fact that they have become inaccessible is everyone else's fault but their own. All the flimsy excuses in the world cannot hide the fact that there is something sketchy going on in your partner's life.

35. No, it's mine!: With the advent of new technologies, there is a multitude of ways one can keep in touch with someone else. If you and your partner used to share phones and laptops, and keep them on in each other's presence and this suddenly changes, there is a reason for that. You used to look at your man's cell phone, read his text messages and he never even flinched.
All of the sudden, his phone has become so precious to him that he eve takes it into the bathroom. If you take a look at it, he accuses you of snooping. His laptop, which used to be your computer as well, suddenly has password protection. All of these are telltale signs that he might have something to hide.

36. Delete all: If he still allows you to touch or use his or her phone, or laptop, you find that he or she always makes sure that browser history and cookies are deleted, that their contact list is cleaned up, and incoming e-mails erased.
Maybe they're just embarrassed of some pages they visited, but more likely, he or she may be hiding their online contact with a lover. Similarly, if his or her phone's message list or call log is always empty, they just might be hiding something or someone from you. Look into this.

37. He or she becomes a night owl: Your partner might spend a lot of time on their computers especially late at night and after you go to bed. Sure, your man might be a porn addict, but he may also be contacting another woman.
On a related note, your partner might start talking more and more on their cell phones, and racking up huge bills. To sum it up, if there is a sudden, unexplained change in telephone or computer usage with your partner, there may be something strange going on.

38. Your opinion and advice don't matter anymore: Another sign that your partner might be infidel is he or she stops seeking out your advice or your opinion about major decisions in their lives. They might make irresponsible big purchases or act impulsively without talking with you first. Maybe he went and spent all of his savings on a boat that you never knew about.
Maybe she decided to put up your house on the market without consulting you first. They may have quit their jobs and not even told you about it. This type of rash behavior is typical of a cheater who just doesn't care about planning your future together anymore and doesn't even care to ask what you think beforehand.

39. Your partner becomes a world champion nagger: A cheating partner may begin to constantly complain about you or your relationship and how unhappy he or she is. They may be overly critical of you, and suggest that things aren't working out. He or she may pick more fights to prove this point and makes no effort to make things work. At this point, your partner may be having an affair but also thinking of ending your relationship.
Now, if you do have genuine problems between you that you are working on, then there is probably nothing to worry about. However, if everything is going fine in your relationship and you do get along; your partner may be fabricating a broken relationship to justify not only his or her cheating, but also their leaving.

40. Sex? No thanks: If your partner is cheating on you, he may suddenly lose interest in having sex with you. Even if he or she does, they'll just go through the motions, with no shared feelings or emotions. If it's there any sex at all, it becomes just physical. If your partner has always been a passionate lover and suddenly becomes detached or cold in lovemaking for no good reason, there may be somebody else.

41. Who are you and what have you done with my wife?: If on the other hand, your man or lady usually is usually more reserved and subdued in bed, and suddenly becomes an extremely attentive and passionate lover with exaggerated displays of affection, they may be overcompensating to deal with their feelings of guilt.
They may suggest you try new things in bed and become more adventurous. Ask them where they got this newfound fervor, and if there's a valid explanation, then just enjoy. Otherwise stay alert. This change in sexual behavior might be a result of infidelity.

42. Extreme changes in feelings and behavior: Your partner may at times be very sexually engaged and at other times be completely withdrawn. Sometimes they shower you with affection, and other times they hardy want to talk to you and seem to avoid you.
Although, there may be good explanations for this type of unpredictable and erratic behavior, it is something to watch out for, especially if your partner used to be fairly consistent. It may be that they are cheating and are confused about their affair, thus taking out their mixed feelings on you.

43. He or she has become a complete downer: Has your partner been generally unsatisfied with their life lately even though they used to be happy? Is he or she much more negative than they used to be? This may be due to an exciting affair that they are having which has demonstrated to them how mundane their current life is. Have they become confused about their own sense of self? Maybe there is someone new in your partner's life who is calling into question their identity and who they are.

44. Bungee jumping, here I come: On a related note, is your partner suddenly a thrill seeker when you could never even get them to go on a child's water slide ride at your local amusement park? Does he suddenly want to get a motorcycle or a tattoo and signs up for mountain climbing classes? Of course, this might just be a mid-life crisis talking.
However, there's always the possibility that there is someone else, perhaps somebody younger in your partner's life that is instigating this transformation and inspiring this new attitude.

45. Low self-esteem: Another sign that your partner may be cheating is that he or she has increasingly low self esteem. This means that your partner is vulnerable and can fall prey to cheating because he or she cannot make themselves feel secure and worthy. If they believe that you are not providing them with enough approval or love and just aren't getting satisfaction from their job, they might go to someone else from whom they can obtain the desired feelings of security and self worth.
Of course this doesn't mean that if your partner cheats, this is your fault; your partner should have come to you first to resolve his or her issues, and low self esteem is no excuse for bad behavior.

46. Gonorrhea, herpes anyone?: A concrete sign that your partner may be straying is you have proof that they have contracted a sexually transmitted disease (STD) and it wasn't from you. Maybe you got a call from your husband's physician, or intercepted an email, or found lab results by mistake. You may even have seen the actual STD on your partner's body.
If this is the case and he or she has only gotten the disease recently, then your partner is not only straying but might even have contaminated you. So get yourself checked. If you have also gotten the STD and you have not engaged in sexual relations with a new partner, then this only serves to confirm your suspicions that your partner has been cheating on you.

47. The "friend" you never got to meet: A tangible sign of cheating is that someone new suddenly starts taking up your partner's time and attention. Whether it's a co-worker, a gym partner, or a friend from way back, this person seems to come out of the blue and he or she starts coming up in conversations and in future plans all the time.
Your partner brings up this mysterious friend in random conversation and they always seem to be at the right place at the right time and at social gatherings you weren't attending. Although it is healthy to seek out new friendships, it is a big red flag if your partner refuses to introduce you to this new friend and wants to keep him or her under wraps.

48. I'm a cheater? No you're the cheater, you cheater: A telltale sign that your partner might be cheating is that they turn around and accuse you of straying when you have given them no reason to doubt you. Of course, there's always the possibility that they're just jealous or are feeling insecure in the relationship. However, if you have reassured them of your unconditional love and have done more than enough to placate their anxiety, and they're still accusing you left and right, something is definitely wrong.
The reason they may be doing this if they're cheating is to deflect attention from their own behavior. They may also genuinely believe that you're cheating because they become paranoid and start imagining their own deceptive tactics everywhere. Don't fall into this trap, and don't start accusing them of cheating either, look out for other signs to be sure.

49. Follow your gut: The biggest sign that your partner may be cheating is that there is something deep inside of you that is making you doubt him or her in the first place. Think about it; you know your partner better than anyone. Their habits, actions and behaviors are hardwired into your brain, and so if you feel it in your gut that there's something wrong, then follow your instincts. It might turn out to be true.

What To Do If Your Partner Is Having An Affair?
Time To Act: Enough is enough.
Stop being the victim, stop living in self-denial, stop living in pain, stop living in agony and stop living in self-pity.
Be bold and take the first step in confronting the truth even if the truth is ugly and not what you want to know.
Now is the time for you to act. Whether you want to confirm your fears or catch your partner or spouse cheating on you with evidence, I can help you.
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So, how can you tell if your wife or girlfriend is cheating? Read on or click here to find out now and learn what the best thing to do is


Is She Cheating? How to Tell If Your Girlfriend Is Unfaithful

Q: Is she cheating? How can I tell if my girlfriend is NOT being faithful? What are the signs that she can't be trusted?
A: The truth is, we get this question at least once a day across our various articles, blogs and men's health community sites... and the fact is, there is GOOD reason to ask!

More and more studies are showing that women are almost as likely now to cheat in a relationship as we are... although their reasons are remarkably different. Men cheat because we want good sex. Women cheat because they want to feel wanted. (and of course, unfortunately for us... that guy who is making her feel wanted is ALSO giving her good sex!)

So what percentage of women cheat?

Good question! The truth is, according to a recent University study on faithfulness in marriage, about 23% of men admitted to being unfaithful, compared to about 19% of the women. While that is just a little bit of difference between the 2, the study also concluded that men were more likely to exaggerate (saying they had cheated, when they hadn't) and women were more likely to feel guilty and lie as well, although the other way! 
(in other words, once the grading on the curve was done, statistically, both sexes probably cheat at roughly the same rates, give or take a percentage either way)

The signs a woman is not being honest in a relationship vary of course from person to person, but there ARE some pretty universal signs you should be on the lookout for.

1 - She stops trusting YOU! I know, I know... sounds pretty silly, right? A woman who is cheating shouldn't be the one with trust issues. BUT, studies show that human nature is pretty simple, and we fear most what we're guilty of ourselves. So if your girl starts losing her trust in YOU... a good question for her, is WHY?

2 - The disappearing act. The truth is, a woman who suddenly starts adding all sorts of new activities to her schedule... especially, if they don't include you, is a red flag. Of course, there MAY be a very good explanation... and often, there IS. But, if she suddenly goes MIA a few nights a week and has very iffy excuses about why and where, a little extra 411 is probably a good idea. (especially if you can deal with it before it gets to dealbreaker status)

3 - A woman who suddenly becomes far more concerned about her appearance is also a red flag, especially if she's exhibiting the first 2 signs as well. If your wife starts getting super dressed up for a 3 hour trip to the mall... and some other red flags are present as well, I'd say you ought to sit down together and get a gauge about what's going on.

What do YOU think? Has your experience been different? If so... HOW so? What are the signs YOU look for in a relationship that a woman can't be trusted?

I hope that YOUR relationships are all good and honest and trustworthy, but if you are looking for some simple insights, the 3 signs above are a good place to begin!

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Infidelity! How to catch a cheating partner

Many people believe it's the men who cheat, but there are more and more women cheating just the same. Remember, it takes two to tango! Do you think your wife is cheating? Well read on and find out if you have a cheating spouse.

How To Catch A Cheating Spouse - How To Tell If She's Not As Faithful As You Once Thought

Ever wondered how to catch a cheating spouse? Are you suspicious of how your spouse has been acting? Do you think your spouse is lying to you? Read on to learn how to catch a cheating spouse, as well as how to tell if she's not as faithful as you once thought...

Believe It Or Not, But Some Women Cheat Too
Marriage is a strong commitment, but too many times a spouse finds that they need someone new in their life to make them happy. Relationships quickly spiral out of control when this happens and one member of the relationship is usually left heartbroken. If you think that your spouse may be cheating on you, you should find out the truth today.

Are you feeling lonely? If your spouse is acting too busy for you and you feel unwanted, maybe they are not feeling chemistry with you anymore. Before you accuse them of cheating, plan a romantic night and talk to him. Let him know how you are feeling and find out what you are doing wrong in your relationship.

How To Catch A Cheating Spouse
Are your spouse's phone calls becoming very private? If your spouse will no longer answer the phone around you, ease dropping is then okay. Sneak behind him/her to see if you can get any idea of who they are talking too.

Maybe it is a private conference call for work and you are worrying about nothing. Or, maybe you are right, maybe they are cheating on you. A relationship is about trust, so there is really no reason your spouse needs to answer the phone in another room.

Does your spouse tell you they are working late but there paycheck is not increasing? If this is the case, they are probably lying to you. Before you get mad, make a "surprise visit" to your spouses work. Tell them you missed them and thought they needed a little break from work. If your spouse is really there, then you are over thinking and they are not lying to you.

Be Ready To Talk It Over
Marriage is all about trust. If you are feeling lied too and betrayed, you need to talk to your spouse. If they are cheating on you, they will probably avoid the question and just jump down your throat. However, if they are being honest, they will have no problem sitting down and talking with you. They will hold your hand and make eye contact if they are telling the truth.
Thinking your spouse is cheating on you is never a good feeling. You should look into the situation before you accuse them though. If you accuse them and they are not cheating on you, you may lose your spouses trust.
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When a spouse is cheating, signs of infidelity are everywhere, you just need to know where to look, then what to do when you find them.

Signs That You Have A Cheating Wife

Is she cheating, or is she not? Finding out if you have a cheating wife is hard, but necessary, sort it out once and for all and if you are not too sure, read the article below and catch your cheating wife

Is My Wife Cheating On Me? - 4 Signs That Your Wife Is Having An Affair

The only sure way to confirm that your wife is cheating on you is when she admits that she is. Other than that, anything you hear or see would be based on plain speculation. However, there are ways for you to stop the infidelity from progressing any further by knowing the tell tale signs of a cheating wife early on.

The point of knowing the early signs of infidelity is for you to nip it at the bud and find ways to rekindle your romance and lead your wife back into your arms.

While infidelity can be characterized by a number of elements, there are general signs of cheating that seem to be common to most women. By knowing how to spot the early signs, you will be able to save your marriage from possible pain, or, perhaps, even make it stronger by opening up lines of communication and rekindling the fire.

Of course, if the lost has gone and the infidelity is based on it, that's another story.
Here are 4 common signs of a cheating wife.

 

1. You Notice Changes In Her Routine
Majority of women are sticklers for order and most of them follow a specific daily routine. If you notice your women suddenly deviating from her normal schedule and finding time to hang out with the girls, something could be up. A woman will definitely find ways to spend time with her lover no matter what.
Changes in a woman's routine could be a sign of a cheating wife. Of course, this isn't 100 per cent true, especially as a lot of women nowadays are becoming more empowered to get engaged in various pursuits. Confirm where she is going and if you find that can't trace her whereabouts, then start wondering.

2. She Becomes Highly Argumentative
If your loving wife suddenly starts picking a fight on whatever and wherever, it could be a sign of infidelity. She could be really stressed about her new "schedule" that any little thing you notice and voice out can trigger a negative response.
Argument is a common defense mechanism of people who are hiding something. It could be the same with your wife. If she starts picking fights and then finds reasons to storm out of your house in anger, these could well be an alibi to spend time with someone else.

3. She Becomes Very Conscious Of Her Looks
It could be that your wife is trying to look good for your sake. But when she takes this new look out of the house and most of the time out of your sight, it could be meant for someone else.
Women can get very obsessive with their looks when they're trying to impress a man. If you're not the recipient of this obsession, you can start wondering whether your wife is seeing someone else.

4. She Spends A Lot Of Time On The Phone Or Online
The point is, your wife is talking to someone a lot and that someone is not you. In a marriage, husbands and wives commonly swap stories at the end of the day and share a laugh or two. If you find your wife sharing these stories with a friend more often and morphs into a somber mood when you're around, that could be a sign of a cheating wife.

In the end, while there is no one way to tell if your wife is cheating on you, these signs will give you an idea that something is not going well with your relationship. It could just be a communication problem that you need to patch up and talk about, or new interests that are cropping up at mid-age.
If so, then that's a good thing. Relationships need something new to keep things interesting, provided, of course, that these interests are known to both and not hidden.

These signs of a cheating wife are not 100 per cent correct, but if you sense something is weird, it's best to immediately act on it towards improvement. Denying the potential of a problem could lead to its worsening.

Time To Act:
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Be bold and take the first step in confronting the truth even if the truth is ugly and not what you want to know.
Now is the time for you to act. Whether you want to confirm your fears or catch your partner or spouse cheating on you with evidence, I can help you.
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Wife or Girlfriend The Cheating Signs Are The Same

How to Tell If Your Girlfriend Is Cheating on You - Signs Of A Cheating Girlfriend

There are four universal signs that your girlfriend has been cheating.
One of the worst feelings you can have is when you find out you girlfriend's been cheating on you. An unfaithful girlfriend can do a lot of damage to you before the relationship crumbles apart. Infidelity has been on the rise, in part because Hollywood has glamorized the idea of having an affair, especially to women. The worst thing about having a cheating girlfriend is realizing the ease with which someone who means something to you can end up lying to your face.

Infidelity is an epidemic that has infected many committed men and women across the country. Almost everybody you know has probably cheated on his or her spouse or partner at least once while in a relationship. Cheating, I believe, is now as common as hay fever in springtime.

Traditionally, unfaithfulness is more commonly committed by men. Nowadays, however, many girlfriends and wives are also having illicit relationships. Fortunately, there are four distinct signs that you can pick up on to find out if your girlfriend or spouse is being unfaithful. If you've found that in the past you've missed the signs of infidelity, it's probably because you weren't paying as much attention as you should have. Often we ignore warning signs because they present a threat to a situation that feels comfortable. But simply knowing the four signs of a cheating partner can help you catch unfaithfulness before it grows into an affair.

Be observant and sensitive to everything around you
The first major sign of a change in behavior is a change in dress and fashion. Has your girlfriend suddenly started caring more about her appearance and asking you how she looks? Chances are she already knows you find her attractive, so the fact that she's asking means she's more concerned about how she appears to the opposite sex in general. A drastic change in appearance is always a warning sign, it means that something has changed in her. We change our appearance when something inside us has changed, it's a strange but irresistible urge and part of what makes us human. We define ourselves by our appearance, and women do this far more than men. If your girlfriend has suddenly changed her appearance and hasn't mentioned some major change in her life or goals, than it's likely that change is someone new in her life.

A different hairstyle, nail polish, clothes, or jewelry are all things she does to change the way she looks. Women pay far more attention to the small details so even if it doesn't seem like a drastic change for you, just the fact that she's shaving her legs more often can be a big change for her. If this sounds familiar, beware, she's trying to impress someone new. Cheating probably isn't that far off.

Less intimacy
Emotional connections are built and reinforced with intimacy, through actions, touch, and words. If your girlfriend hates kissing, or doesn't like holding your hands, she wants to leave you. We have a built in drive to match our behaviors to our emotions, so only skilled actors are able to make fake intimate gestures convincing. Most of us will find it very difficult and distasteful to kiss and touch someone we have negative feelings about.

This also manifests through your sex life, a sudden drop in sex for no reason is a major warning sign of approaching infidelity. If she's wearing her good lingerie but not having sex with you, she's wearing it for someone else. It's very likely that's she's already been unfaithful.

Girl's Night Out and Overtime
Has she been spending a lot more time with her girlfriends. If she's goes out with the girls more, she wants to get away from you. Girls are terrible gossips, so pay attention to her friends' behavior around you. If they are treating you differently, it's a good bet that she's been bad-mouthing you to her girls. If she's spending a lot more time with the girls but never brings them around, there are two possibilities, both bad. One, she's been talking a lot of shit about you and thus doesn't want her girls around you. Or Two, she hasn't been spending that time with her girls...

Overtime projects may be an excuse to see another man. We all have varying work schedules, but be suspicious if suddenly she needs to spend lots of overtime. So see if she really is working on a project by stopping by to see her. Bring her coffee or dinner as a excuse.

If she sees you and is working she will appreciate your gesture. If she is not there or wants you to leave, she's hiding something.

Another easy tell is to smell her, if she's been having sex she will either smell like sweat, sweat and perfume, or she'll smell like she just took a shower. Your nose is far more observant that you realize. Just give her a hug when she comes home and if she's been with another man, it will be obvious.

More Talk on the Phone and Internet
Granted women talk on the phone lots, and they do the same on the internet, but a spike in phone and/or internet activity can be because there is a new man in her life. The key thing to watch for here is openness. If she hides her messages or avoids you when she is on the phone, she may be talking to another guy. If she's been getting a lot more phone calls recently, especially calls late at night, she's definitely got a relationship on the side. It might not be physical yet, but emotional infidelity tends to quickly escalate to a cheating girlfriend. 57% of women flirt on the internet, so watch out for "harmless" flirting, it's never harmless.

If a girl has 2 of these 4 signs...watch out! Talk to her about it and see if the relationship can be saved, but remember to ask yourself, if this is happening, do you really want to save the relationship or are you just comfortable and don't want to deal with change?

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Is Your Wife Cheating On You? Here Are Some Tips On Cheating Spouses

The only thing worse than a cheating wife, is a cheating wife who pretends not to be cheating. Check out the article below for some techniques on how to catch a cheating spouse.

How to Tell If Your Wife Is Cheating - 6 Techniques

The conventional thought that it is only married men who cheat is being disproved by rising statistics showing wives having affairs of their own. Being cheated on can be devastating especially if you considered the marriage to last a lifetime. Here are techniques on how to tell if your wife is cheating.

1. Record the number of times you make love with her. If it is declining and she seems to look disinterested in having sex with you, she may be getting it outside of your marriage.

2. See how your wife reacts when her phone rings. If she grabs the phone hurriedly and leaves the room, she is having a conversation that she does not want you to hear. If she abruptly hangs up the phone when you enter the room, this is also a giveaway sign.
3. Try to check without being obvious what she is doing on her computer. If she logs off quickly or turns off the monitor or CPU when she sees you around, she is definitely hiding something such as romantic messages or emails with her lover. You can also check the history of her browser when she is not around to see the websites she visits.

 

4.If she continuously and effusively gushes about a certain man who may be an old friend, this means there is something going on between them. A poll conducted by MSNBC indicated that women are more likely to have an affair with a friend from the past. Women also love talking about a special person which is a dead giveaway.
5. Get the services of a private investigator that will follow your wife around and will gather evidence such as pictures or videos. This is a great way on how to tell if your wife is cheating as concrete proof will be laid on your hands. Make sure though that you can handle the truth because seeing it with your own eyes can be very hurtful.
6. Ask your wife if she is having an affair. There will come a time when cheating spouses can no longer handle the guilt and wish to confess their sins to feel relieved. Just make sure you would be able to handle the truth. Having a cheating wife is more difficult to take than a cheating husband because of the conventional dictates of society. Try these techniques on how to tell if your wife is cheating which include knowing the number of times you make love, seeing her attitude towards her phone and computer, listening to the way she talks about a certain guy, hiring a private investigator and asking her point-blank about it.

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Lines Used By Cheating Wifes

There are common phrases that women use when cheating, the article below explains these so you can catch your cheating wife.

How to Tell If Your Wife Is Cheating - Five Lines Commonly Used by Women

Most men would say that women are difficult to understand because they like to beat around the bush. She says she's fine but deep inside, she's raging. She smiles in front of you but when she turns around, she releases a sigh of disappointment. As Billy Joel says in his song, she only reveals what she wants you to see.

But when it comes to infidelity, signs should not go by unnoticed. You have to know how to tell if your wife is cheating on you. We listed a few lines women use to signify they're into someone else.

"I feel something's wrong in my life."

Women don't just cheat for sexual pleasures alone. It can be because of boredom, search for adventure or the kind of neglect gets from the family. If she mentions this line, try to monitor not only her activities but also her needs. You might be able to help her solve her issues in one way or another. It's also possible that how you treat her is the reason why she's two-timing.

"I don't need to tell you everything."

Women love to share whatever comes to her mind. They need to express how long the line at the supermarket is, how much she hated her supervisor and how interesting the love story of her colleague is. They want somebody who can listen to all those details at the end of the day. So if she keeps things to herself for no reason, it may mean she has found a listening ear in another person.

 

"Excuse me. I'll just answer this call outside."

She doesn't need to do it away from you. A loyal wife is transparent with her activities to her husband. If she often says this line, you have a valid reason to doubt. Observe how long she is spending time on her mobile phone and the Internet. If she's doing it excessively, she might be up to something. Your how-to-tell-if-your-wife-is-cheating issues can be confirmed by this.

"I need to go out with friends."

Meeting up with buddies is a healthy thing to do. But if she prioritizes it more than her role as a wife or as a mother, it should send a message to you. She might be only using it as an excuse to her extra-marital affairs. Good thing there are mobile phones that you can use to check where really is. You can call her friend too if you like. Just don't badmouth your wife or attempt to humiliate.

"Let's do this some other time. I'm too tired."

How she treats you in bed says something as well. If she doesn't respond to your kisses and giggles like how she used to, it could be a sign. Women need to be touched as much as men do. If she's no longer interested in having a sexual relationship with you, find the reason why.

Women may use different lines when they cover up their infidelity. So the ultimate way of knowing how to tell if your wife is cheating or not is to observe the consistency between her words and her deeds. You have to be extra sensitive and you must know the art of reading between the lines.

Recognizing the signs is the first step, but you need to confirm your suspicion before confronting her (you could be wrong). Read the details of an expert guide for that matter on Catch A Cheating Spouse review. If you need to know more symptoms to make sure, see emotional affair signs.

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Is She Cheating? Here Are Some Signs Your Wife Is Cheating

Signs of a cheating wife are everywhere, If she's cheating, there will be signs. The article below gives some excellent cheating spouse signs.

How To Tell If Your Wife Is Cheating - Signs Your Wife Is Cheating on You 

Do you want to know how to tell if your wife is cheating on you? While we hate to admit it, we would rather catch on to the signs of a cheating spouse instead of getting blind sighted by something that you could have seen coming. Infidelity the most common cause of separations and divorces. Cheating often happens with broken or damaged marriages and leads to fears that in future relationships you will be cheated on again. Being cheated on always hurts, but it hurts much more when you don't see it coming. But cheating never comes out of the blue. There are always signs that your partner is about to or has already started cheating on you. Here are some things you can do to become more aware of how your relationship is doing. When you learn to observe these key things, you will never be caught unaware.

We feel things for a reason, but it's important to know when you are being over reactive and when you are picking up on some warning signs. If you've been cheated on in the past, you may be hypersensitive to small changes and get the wrong impression, so it helps to tackle the situation rationally. Take note of how often these feelings occur what it is that sparks them. If you think she's lying to you and have always been good at telling when she's lying, you are probably right. If you're suspicious when she comes home 15 minutes late, you're probably overreacting, if you're suspicious when she comes home the next morning, you're probably suspicious for a reason. If you aren't jealous often, pay attention to when feelings of jealousy pop up. Then look at the circumstances and see if your jealousy might be related to her cheating on you.

There are three major changes in her patterns of behavior to watch for. Her schedule, her moods, and sex. A changes in schedule could involve her spending much more time at "work", leaving home earlier, coming home later, or suddenly picking up a new activity that requires her to be out more. Changes in moods are most often seen through her reactions. Does she seem distant, suddenly not bothered by things that usually bother her. Does she seem unusually preoccupied? And changes in your sex life are quite easy to catch on to, you'll know right away if she's doing something different that she may have learned elsewhere (and it wasn't Cosmo!) But also pay attention to her sex drive, is she suddenly craving more or less sex unexpectedly? That's a good sign that something significant has changed in her life.

One of the key things that breaks down when a spouse is cheating is communication. What usually happens is that you'll notice that she's communicating less with you because she's already sharing with her lover. Check on how well you communicate (including problems or emotions), does it seem like you know her less and less, that her life and thoughts are slowly becoming more and more hidden from you? Even fighting less can be worrisome, especially if you're a couple that fights often. How much she communicates with you is a reflection of how invested she is in your relationship. A drop in communication reflects a drop in interest on her part.

If you're picking up on these elements, your relationship is in danger. They don't necessarily mean that she's started physically cheating on you. But emotionally, she's already having an affair. The question you must pose yourself is whether what you have is worth saving or if this is happening because the two of you just didn't work out. Either way, it's a problem you're going to need to resolve, and you're going to need to sit down with her and talk it out.

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