Wednesday, April 11, 2007

How To Tell if Your Wife Is Cheating

How To Tell if Your Wife Is Cheating

Having an can be devastating, do you suspect your wife is cheating on you? If you believe you have a you need to look for the sign of a cheating spouse. can be a major life changing event. If you have a , they will always show you a .

You need to , do not just confront them, be sure, before you start this extremely hard and difficult time. There are lots of ways to .

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How To Tell if Your Wife Is Cheating

Below is a great article, 9 Signs of a Cheating Wife by Jennifer Lawless

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9 Signs of a Cheating Wife
How To Tell if Your Wife Is Cheating

Guys, do you suspect your wife of cheating on you? One study reported that 53% of women admitted cheating on their husbands, so it's not just a paranoid fantasy. It can and does happen, but how do you know if it's happening to you? At the risk of being a traitor to the sisterhood, here are 9 signs that your wife may be cheating on you?

1) You find birth-control pills in her medicine cabinet, and you've had a vasectomy. Is your wife is a pack rat who never throws anything out? If they're left over from before your vasectomy, relax, but, if she bought them last week...

2) She sets up a new e-mail account and doesn't tell you about it. Of course, you'd have to be fairly sneaky to discover this. If she's also smart enough to delete her cookies and browsing history, you're probably out of luck. Ditto, if she only uses the account at work.

3) She goes to the store for groceries and comes home 5 hours later. If it's the day before Thanksgiving or the Super Bowl, give her a break. Otherwise, if she takes 5 hours to shop for groceries, she'd better be bringing home some good stuff.

4) She buys herself new underwear. Was underwear on sale? Did she buy you some new underwear too? If she hasn't worn her new underwear for you, she may be wearing it for someone else.

5) She sets up a separate cell phone account that is billed to her office. Good luck discovering this, but she might get careless and call you on her "secret" cell phone one day.

6) The toilet bowl seat is up, and when you left home it was down. Were you expecting the plumber? If you weren't, some other man was in the house because ladies NEVER leave the toilet bowl seat up.

7) She's unconventionally spending money on new clothes. Women buy new clothes to make themselves feel better and to make themselves look better. Either way, there may be a problem.

8) She stops confiding in you and seeking advice from you. How many years did it take you to notice this? The more years, the more likely that she has found someone else to confide in and seek advice from.

9) She stops wearing her wedding ring. Being in a relationship proves that she's a real woman, and her wedding ring is free advertisement. Not wearing her wedding ring says one of two things: she's trying to indicate that she's available for a relationship, or she's trying to forget that she's already in one. Neither is good for your marriage.

Surveys of women report that only 20% of women have affairs for sex; most have affairs for emotional reasons. If your lady is straying, it's probably not because of what's happening in the bedroom. It's because of what's happening (or not happening) outside it. If want to save your marriage, it means that YOU are probably going to have to change. Are you ready for that?

about the author
Jennifer Lawless writes on various subjects, including 9 Signs of a Cheating Wife. To find out the single biggest mistake you can make when you think your wife is having an affair, visit her website .Astonishing Discoveries

Friday, February 09, 2007

Sign Of A Cheating Wife. 5 Areas To Watch Carefully

INFIDELITY WARNING!
DO NOT JUMP TO CONCLUSIONS.
Make sure before you accuse, if you're wrong you could cause serious damage to your marriage or relationship, that may never go away.A few signs below, remember your spouse may show all these signs but still be faithfull. DO YOUR RESEARCH.
The cheating wife’s physical appearance will change, she knows it has to. A woman having an affair (or even thinking about having one) will want to make herself more attractive. She will begin to dress smarter, her appearance will alter in some way. Be alert for new clothes, new perfume and her personal hygiene. These are usually the most visible signs of infidelity. If she suddenly has a personal makeover there is a good chance she's trying to impress someone, that someone may not be you!

A cheating spouses conversation and mannerisms will change. Listen carefully to what your wife chooses or refuses to talk about. Usually her conversations would include the same places and people, after all we are creatures of habit. Suddenly she starts talking of new places and people using very different tones in her voice and mannerisms.

The cheating wife will relate to the family differently. The way your wife communicates with you will change, suddenly the little things that used to bother her no longer do. An example could be, kids making a noise when he comes in from work, used to annoy her, but suddenly she smiles and makes a pleasant comment about the kids. This is a sign that her mind is on something else, something that she finds very pleasant. She suddenly has more patience, used to get annoyed about the small things, suddenly she doesn’t seem bothered.

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Steven is an expert in cheating spouses and how to catch them. For help, tips and advice, visit,

Thursday, January 25, 2007

Is She Cheating On You?

A good article with tips to see if your wife is cheating on you, by Alex Daniels, who is in the wedding and groomsmen markets.

When it comes to a cheating partner, men are somewhat at a disadvantage. Men are designed to be confronters, so let's face it, most guys are not sneaky enough to pull off a cheat clean. Women, on the other hand, are masters of subtlety. In part, this has to do with the inattention that men pay to details; a girlfriend could be cheating and the guy would actually have no clue until she is ready to move in with the other guy. There are ways to tell if your lady is messing around behind your back, though, if you care to take the time to carefully observe. Just remember that any one of the following things could indicate any number of things; only in combination and when frequently occurring are they an indicator of an affair.

Emotional distance
* When was the last time your girlfriend or wife brought up an issue at work with you? How about discussed her plans for your future together or her own hopes? When a woman cheats, she's looking for an emotional life preserver, not the sexiest conquest. If you realize all of a sudden that she is no longer talking to you about her life, turn the alarm bells on.
* On the other hand, some women DO go for the sexiest conquest, but it is only as a matter of revenge. If this is what is going on, she will probably end up telling you herself.
* If she's stopped trying, you're probably in a lot of trouble. Do you all of a sudden realize that there is nothing but quiet? At first you may smile, but if she isn't asking you to come with her to counseling or at least talk to your family, then she is getting her emotional support elsewhere.

Physical Appearance
Women are always concerned about how they look, but a woman who is cheating on her man will have a definite pattern in what she chooses to adorn herself with. Look for clothes that you can't remember her wearing in ages; be especially wary of outfits that she has never put on before.

Believe it or not, shoes are a HUGE part of a woman's wardrobe, and sexy shoes mean she is trying to land a man or impress a man already landed. Look out for shoes that suddenly appear in her closet or on her feet, but which she never wears around you. Also look out for strange scents or an over application.

The thing to remember about most women when it comes to cheating is that they do it out of desperation, not lust. A woman who cheats is almost all of the time a woman who already feels alone and therefore has nothing to lose. It can be hard for a guy to see the signs of a cheat, because the signs are largely in intimate interactions and conversations. If this is lost, then the girl might be too. The best way to keep your partner from cheating on you is to give her no reason to by being the best friend that she has.

About the Author
Alex consults for an online gift shop specializing in wedding supplies and groomsmen gifts. Alex is recently married.