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Is She Cheating? How to Tell If Your Girlfriend Is Unfaithful

Q: Is she cheating? How can I tell if my girlfriend is NOT being faithful? What are the signs that she can't be trusted?
A: The truth is, we get this question at least once a day across our various articles, blogs and men's health community sites... and the fact is, there is GOOD reason to ask!

More and more studies are showing that women are almost as likely now to cheat in a relationship as we are... although their reasons are remarkably different. Men cheat because we want good sex. Women cheat because they want to feel wanted. (and of course, unfortunately for us... that guy who is making her feel wanted is ALSO giving her good sex!)

So what percentage of women cheat?

Good question! The truth is, according to a recent University study on faithfulness in marriage, about 23% of men admitted to being unfaithful, compared to about 19% of the women. While that is just a little bit of difference between the 2, the study also concluded that men were more likely to exaggerate (saying they had cheated, when they hadn't) and women were more likely to feel guilty and lie as well, although the other way! 
(in other words, once the grading on the curve was done, statistically, both sexes probably cheat at roughly the same rates, give or take a percentage either way)

The signs a woman is not being honest in a relationship vary of course from person to person, but there ARE some pretty universal signs you should be on the lookout for.

1 - She stops trusting YOU! I know, I know... sounds pretty silly, right? A woman who is cheating shouldn't be the one with trust issues. BUT, studies show that human nature is pretty simple, and we fear most what we're guilty of ourselves. So if your girl starts losing her trust in YOU... a good question for her, is WHY?

2 - The disappearing act. The truth is, a woman who suddenly starts adding all sorts of new activities to her schedule... especially, if they don't include you, is a red flag. Of course, there MAY be a very good explanation... and often, there IS. But, if she suddenly goes MIA a few nights a week and has very iffy excuses about why and where, a little extra 411 is probably a good idea. (especially if you can deal with it before it gets to dealbreaker status)

3 - A woman who suddenly becomes far more concerned about her appearance is also a red flag, especially if she's exhibiting the first 2 signs as well. If your wife starts getting super dressed up for a 3 hour trip to the mall... and some other red flags are present as well, I'd say you ought to sit down together and get a gauge about what's going on.

What do YOU think? Has your experience been different? If so... HOW so? What are the signs YOU look for in a relationship that a woman can't be trusted?

I hope that YOUR relationships are all good and honest and trustworthy, but if you are looking for some simple insights, the 3 signs above are a good place to begin!

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Wife or Girlfriend The Cheating Signs Are The Same

How to Tell If Your Girlfriend Is Cheating on You - Signs Of A Cheating Girlfriend

There are four universal signs that your girlfriend has been cheating.
One of the worst feelings you can have is when you find out you girlfriend's been cheating on you. An unfaithful girlfriend can do a lot of damage to you before the relationship crumbles apart. Infidelity has been on the rise, in part because Hollywood has glamorized the idea of having an affair, especially to women. The worst thing about having a cheating girlfriend is realizing the ease with which someone who means something to you can end up lying to your face.

Infidelity is an epidemic that has infected many committed men and women across the country. Almost everybody you know has probably cheated on his or her spouse or partner at least once while in a relationship. Cheating, I believe, is now as common as hay fever in springtime.

Traditionally, unfaithfulness is more commonly committed by men. Nowadays, however, many girlfriends and wives are also having illicit relationships. Fortunately, there are four distinct signs that you can pick up on to find out if your girlfriend or spouse is being unfaithful. If you've found that in the past you've missed the signs of infidelity, it's probably because you weren't paying as much attention as you should have. Often we ignore warning signs because they present a threat to a situation that feels comfortable. But simply knowing the four signs of a cheating partner can help you catch unfaithfulness before it grows into an affair.

Be observant and sensitive to everything around you
The first major sign of a change in behavior is a change in dress and fashion. Has your girlfriend suddenly started caring more about her appearance and asking you how she looks? Chances are she already knows you find her attractive, so the fact that she's asking means she's more concerned about how she appears to the opposite sex in general. A drastic change in appearance is always a warning sign, it means that something has changed in her. We change our appearance when something inside us has changed, it's a strange but irresistible urge and part of what makes us human. We define ourselves by our appearance, and women do this far more than men. If your girlfriend has suddenly changed her appearance and hasn't mentioned some major change in her life or goals, than it's likely that change is someone new in her life.

A different hairstyle, nail polish, clothes, or jewelry are all things she does to change the way she looks. Women pay far more attention to the small details so even if it doesn't seem like a drastic change for you, just the fact that she's shaving her legs more often can be a big change for her. If this sounds familiar, beware, she's trying to impress someone new. Cheating probably isn't that far off.

Less intimacy
Emotional connections are built and reinforced with intimacy, through actions, touch, and words. If your girlfriend hates kissing, or doesn't like holding your hands, she wants to leave you. We have a built in drive to match our behaviors to our emotions, so only skilled actors are able to make fake intimate gestures convincing. Most of us will find it very difficult and distasteful to kiss and touch someone we have negative feelings about.

This also manifests through your sex life, a sudden drop in sex for no reason is a major warning sign of approaching infidelity. If she's wearing her good lingerie but not having sex with you, she's wearing it for someone else. It's very likely that's she's already been unfaithful.

Girl's Night Out and Overtime
Has she been spending a lot more time with her girlfriends. If she's goes out with the girls more, she wants to get away from you. Girls are terrible gossips, so pay attention to her friends' behavior around you. If they are treating you differently, it's a good bet that she's been bad-mouthing you to her girls. If she's spending a lot more time with the girls but never brings them around, there are two possibilities, both bad. One, she's been talking a lot of shit about you and thus doesn't want her girls around you. Or Two, she hasn't been spending that time with her girls...

Overtime projects may be an excuse to see another man. We all have varying work schedules, but be suspicious if suddenly she needs to spend lots of overtime. So see if she really is working on a project by stopping by to see her. Bring her coffee or dinner as a excuse.

If she sees you and is working she will appreciate your gesture. If she is not there or wants you to leave, she's hiding something.

Another easy tell is to smell her, if she's been having sex she will either smell like sweat, sweat and perfume, or she'll smell like she just took a shower. Your nose is far more observant that you realize. Just give her a hug when she comes home and if she's been with another man, it will be obvious.

More Talk on the Phone and Internet
Granted women talk on the phone lots, and they do the same on the internet, but a spike in phone and/or internet activity can be because there is a new man in her life. The key thing to watch for here is openness. If she hides her messages or avoids you when she is on the phone, she may be talking to another guy. If she's been getting a lot more phone calls recently, especially calls late at night, she's definitely got a relationship on the side. It might not be physical yet, but emotional infidelity tends to quickly escalate to a cheating girlfriend. 57% of women flirt on the internet, so watch out for "harmless" flirting, it's never harmless.

If a girl has 2 of these 4 signs...watch out! Talk to her about it and see if the relationship can be saved, but remember to ask yourself, if this is happening, do you really want to save the relationship or are you just comfortable and don't want to deal with change?

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